The Fight Against Self.

We humans desperately want to love and to be loved, but we fail to love ourselves. We all live in a pool of insecurities and self-doubt waiting to be found and taken care off. Love is a universal expression and self-love is a universal need.

One should be independent of the other while tackling their way through self-doubt. You are the only one who is aware of the hidden secrets about yourself, the inside and the out, the good and the bad.

The first and most important step is to know yourself. You take yourself to places and do things that you have always wanted to do because in the end, it does matter what you think about yourself.

Learn to appreciate what you have and be self-aware. Knowing about your insecurities and breaking them apart will help you to build a better foundation for yourself. Of course, it is easier said than done.

The more we motivate and the more we know about ourselves, the happier we’ll be. Don’t be hesitant or afraid to seek help, there are people who love you and wants to help you. Motivate yourself to do and explore what you have never done before. Self-awareness is the key to deal with insecurities. It helps you to breathe and lets you be free.

Being a teenager, I was suffocated with self-doubt. I became a victim of insecurities. There were millions of thoughts and questions which needed an immediate response. I kept on finding faults with myself which mounded my mind like a cloud.

Self-doubt is destructive for the mind and the body. It takes you to a dark place where little light enters. I kept on ignoring the existential thoughts, and as each day passed by it kept on piling up. Insecurities create a wound which keeps on bleeding until it’s properly taken care off. I was a living time bomb in the urge of exploding.

On a particular day, i decided to tackle the problem on my own which much to my surprise worked well. I ensured that i sought help whenever needed. I started from the core and found my way through the darkness. Finally, i was past the mounded clouds and rose up like a rainbow. Colourful and happy.

A lot of things have guided me along the way. I especially thank my friends and my loving parents for it, but most importantly i need to thank myself. I have learned that there is no wrong in showing vulnerability. Expressing my deepest thoughts is one of the other factors which help me to heal.

I gave 25 minutes daily to myself, where i evaluated and embraced ‘me’. Little things do matter. When you appreciate yourself, you unconsciously celebrate everyone else around you.

Taking psychology in 11th grade has made a great impact on me. It helps you to understand why you’re doing things the way you do it. Now, i have been studying psychology for one year. From which i can tell you that it binds anything and everything.

Maybe we are supposed to care and appreciate ourselves before we start to preach love. You deserve to be happy, so do i. The moment you respect yourself is the moment you start to grow. Celebrate self to celebrate life.

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